M: will my grandpas come back from heaven and see me?
me: no, but when you grow up and get old and die and go to heaven, they will be there waiting for you.
M: oh! now?
me: now, you want to live a long time and get married and have kids and be a grandma, right?
M: I want to grow up and be a mommy and have babies first!
But how am I going to know what husband to pick?
me: you'll know. you'll grow up and meet someone who always makes you smile like Gracie does with Jason. And you know what? when I look at your daddy's eyes, it makes me smile.
M: (giggling) I want to marry my daddy when I grow up! He makes me smile!
me: you'll grow up and you'll meet your own husband to make you smile.
M: I want to meet a husband right now!
me: you have to go to school and get big first.
she really is my mini-me :)