And how do I convince her that yes, she should be helping, while the two year old runs around, not really helping?
I have a tough time remembering that my four year old isn't as old as she looks. She's eloquent and bright and I forget that she's just a little person. And then I get angry that she isn't doing more.
Luckily, then I remember that she's just a tiny human and can't clean her room all by herself.
so, now I'll go back to cleaning my daughters' room. And focus my frustration on the winter storm that is making my husband work on a Saturday to catch up. And make a gunny sack later.